A fellow mother of a sleeping angel and a good friend of mine, shared this with me. I love it!
Thursday, May 24, 2012
An Eternal Memory...
A fellow mother of a sleeping angel and a good friend of mine, shared this with me. I love it!
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
My Reality...
by Milena about her son Enzo.
"It is so easy to say: you are young!!!, soon you will 'get over it'!!!, you can always have more children!!! And it is even easier for most people to completely ignore the subject fearing a contagious effect. If you cry, you aren't letting your child rest in peace. If you don't cry then you don't care about your child. If you get pregnant too soon then you are trying to replace him. If you don't get pregnant then you will be forever attached to a memory; but the truth is...
It doesn't matter if I'm young, he is mine.
It doesn't matter if I continue my life, he will always be present.
It doesn't matter if I can have more children, he is irreplaceable.
It doesn't matter if you ignore me, thank you for letting me know the type of person you truly are.
It doesn't matter if you don't want to talk about him, I alone can remember him and talk about him everyday.
It doesn't matter your fear of my pain, that means that I am still alive and that I still feel emotions of this crazy life.
It doesn't matter how much people judge me or my way of living with this pain, each person lives a loss differently.
I am not a stranger to pain, loss, memories, grief... and because of that...
I HURT... I REMEMBER... I LOVE... and I EXIST. And because of those reasons, every day that I live I will demonstrate how alive I am, and how sensitive I am to pain because he WAS MY CHILD, IS MY CHILD, and WILL ALWAYS BE MY CHILD."
"It is so easy to say: you are young!!!, soon you will 'get over it'!!!, you can always have more children!!! And it is even easier for most people to completely ignore the subject fearing a contagious effect. If you cry, you aren't letting your child rest in peace. If you don't cry then you don't care about your child. If you get pregnant too soon then you are trying to replace him. If you don't get pregnant then you will be forever attached to a memory; but the truth is...
It doesn't matter if I'm young, he is mine.
It doesn't matter if I continue my life, he will always be present.
It doesn't matter if I can have more children, he is irreplaceable.
It doesn't matter if you ignore me, thank you for letting me know the type of person you truly are.
It doesn't matter if you don't want to talk about him, I alone can remember him and talk about him everyday.
It doesn't matter your fear of my pain, that means that I am still alive and that I still feel emotions of this crazy life.
It doesn't matter how much people judge me or my way of living with this pain, each person lives a loss differently.
I am not a stranger to pain, loss, memories, grief... and because of that...
I HURT... I REMEMBER... I LOVE... and I EXIST. And because of those reasons, every day that I live I will demonstrate how alive I am, and how sensitive I am to pain because he WAS MY CHILD, IS MY CHILD, and WILL ALWAYS BE MY CHILD."
Introducing: Brayden James...
My Rainbow baby Brayden James is finally here!! He is a handsome little man and is perfectly healthy! He is truly my miracle and I thank God everyday for him! I am starting a blog for him and will try to post monthly pics and updates. (and other things too).
Here is the link to his page: http://forthischildipray.blogspot.com/
Here is the link to his page: http://forthischildipray.blogspot.com/
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